I've realized that so many things in my life lack a guarantee. My eyes have been opened to so much in the recent weeks that I feel led to share this somewhat somber post.
The Devil does such a good job of making us think that we are in control of our lives! He makes us think that if we get a degree and go to school then we are guaranteed a job. He makes us think that if we wear the right clothes and say the right things, people will like us. He makes us think that if we work hard and show up to work every day we will always have a job and a paycheck. He makes us think that as long as we have money in the bank, we are financially secure and nothing can touch our livelihood. He makes us think that if we love each other enough, spend enough time with each other, go on enough dates, have nice things and do fun things, our marriages will be untouchable. He makes us think that if we eat right and exercise, we are going to have control over our lives/lifespan. He makes Jake and I think that as long as we put our hope in doctors and medicine, God and faith have no place in our pregnancy.
How many students have bachelors degrees and masters degrees and are looking for work? How many men and women try their hardest to conform to the ways of this world, yet still feel alone? How many people worked hard and showed up to work everyday for 30 years to find a pink slip in the mailbox one day and their severance packages dissolved? How many people have savings in the bank only to find out after a bad medical diagnosis or a crisis that it wasn't enough? How many marriages start out with the best intentions and seem so happy only to be ripped apart by divorce and infidelity? How many healthy and active people treat themselves and their bodies right, only to find out they are another victim of cancer? How many doctors have we visited and how many treatments have we tried yet we still aren't pregnant?
None of the things above come with a guarantee. None of the things above are promised to us. I once heard someone say, "On any given day, your boss owes you nothing more than a paycheck. Regardless of how good of an employee or person you are, at the end of the day all they owe you is a paycheck for the hours you worked."
Also, people spend hours reading countless articles about marriage and keeping the love alive only to see the bottom of the page filled with comments from people who say, "I tried this and my marriage still failed... I stayed in great shape and my husband or wife still cheated on me... This is a lie, the love never stays alive..."
So much money gets spent on gym memberships and healthy foods and yet, people still die at a young age, or have heart attacks because of their genetics or get diagnosed with cancer.
Satan fools us by giving us a false sense of control.
Possibly the biggest trick that Satan has is that he makes us think that as long as we show up to church on holidays or even once a week and do the song and dance, we will go to Heaven. He makes you think that doing good things and treating people right will get you to that happy place above. Why should you need a personal relationship with Jesus Christ in order to go to heaven? Why should you SERVE someone in order to live a happy life?
I say all of this not to condemn anyone but to challenge people. Just as I am being challenged right now because I have been tricked by all of these lies and recently my EYES have been opened to the fact that I was BELIEVING so many of these lies. I realize that the only guarantee that I have in my life is my Savior. I am guaranteed by asking God into my heart and asking Him to guide and lead my life, that my name is written in the Lamb's Book of Life. I am not guaranteed that I will always have a job but I am guaranteed that no matter what circumstances I face, whether they are financial, physical, or emotional, He is with me. My marriage is not guaranteed to be perfect but as long as Jake and I put Christ first, we will have something bigger and stronger than ourselves guiding us. Our treatments are not guaranteed to get us pregnant but we know that God will lead us down whatever path we are supposed to walk once they are no longer an option.
God guarantees us one thing in life: His love. Please remember that the next time you want to complain about something not going your way. You have not been guaranteed any of these things so instead of being upset, focus on the best and most important guarantee you'll ever get in your life - God loves you and if you submit to His will and His plan for your life, you will spend eternity in Heaven! Where none of this other stuff will matter anyways! Can I get an amen to that?!